Description
Join Bertold Ulsamer for a 5-day “research trip” into the dynamics of love, relationships, and conflict. We all want fulfilling relationships, but they often lead to suffering. This workshop uses systemic constellations to explore the deep loyalties , hidden dynamics , and victim patterns that define how we connect.
This event is both a personal journey and a training opportunity , as Bertold will explain interventions and discuss the constellations to help participants better understand the results.
You encounter yourself as a man or a woman – or however you define yourself. In doing so, you may find new ways to connect with the opposite or same sex in a more fulfilling way.
The Seminar Covers the Following Topics:
1. Successful love relationships At the beginning of a relationship, we often expect someone to love us unconditionally. Deep down, we still feel like children who want to be loved… and we will be disappointed. What does it need for a mature attitude that allows the existing love to grow further?
2. Loyalty to the ancestors of the same sex Men are deeply connected to their male ancestors, women to their female ancestors. The tensions of the past are still present in a couple’s conflicts today. How can we be loyal to our ancestors and at the same time find our own power in connection with our mother or father?
3. Leaving the role of the victim For centuries, women were victims of men. Out of loyalty, a woman easily feels like a victim of a man. Men have the childhood experience of being in the hands of a woman, usually the mother. How can someone transform their sense of victimization and become a responsible partner?
4. Mothers and Sons – Fathers and Daughters The closer someone is to the parent of the opposite sex, the more difficult it is later to have a lasting, reliable relationship. Children are also repeatedly expected to fulfill the unfulfilled needs of their parents. How do we free ourselves from such influences?
5. “Male” and “female” as fixed forms are dissolving Today, people define themselves as non-binary or feel transgender. At the same time, relationship forms are changing, such as polyamory. What are the effects of today’s developments?
